6 Big Hairy Website Mistakes That Most Wedding Professionals Make

Your website is often the first thing a potential client sees when they are researching you. First impressions are huge and if you are making any of these 6 website mistakes, you could be missing out on a lot of money in lost bookings.

1. You’ve got a bad case of “Me, Me” Syndrome

Does your website read like this? “I studied for years, and I won this award and I shoot weddings in this particular style”? If your website contains lots of personal pronouns like us, me, we, I and our then your business has “Me, Me” Syndrome but there is hope.

Your content needs to pass the “What does that mean to me?” test. When you write, put yourself in your customer’s position and question every sentence with “What does that mean to me?”. What matters to you may not matter to them because they want to know what is in this for them. Make use of “you” and tell your audience what they will get from working with you. Speak to them, not at them.

2. You’re using industry jargon

Most of your customers have never planned a wedding before and using industry jargon can confuse and intimidate them. Words like “reportage” and “contemporary” mean nothing to your customers. Your marketing materials should be in your customer’s language, not the language you speak with other wedding professionals.

3. You’re only talking about the bride

Wedding professionals have a bad habit of overusing the word “bride” but it takes two to tango. Of course there are some things that only brides will be shopping for, but other than gender-specific items like apparel, be sure to appeal to both of the decision makers.

“The biggest mistake in losing the sale is focusing just on bride. 65% of grooms are involved & decisions have equal weight.” -Splendid Insights

4. You’re not asking visitors to do anything

When someone reads your blog posts, website content or marketing materials, do they know what you want them to do next? This might seem silly but it is statistically proven that using calls to action (CTAs) increases the likelihood of a visitor taking a specific action.

Calls to action are simply words that are used to get your prospect to take a specific action like “click here” or “sign up”. Take a look at every page on your own website and think about what action you want the reader to take after they read it.

5. You’re not demonstrating that you know what you’re doing

Putting together a simple website is no longer enough for people to see you as being credible and reliable because anyone can do it. You can demonstrate credibility through blogging on your own site, and you could start guest blogging and link to those articles/promote them on your social media. You could add more compelling testimonials to your site by adding a photo or video to accompany them. If you are a photographer, add a photo of the person who gave you the testimonial. You could also add a photo of yourself on your about page and give more insight into who you really are.

6. You’re trying to get married before the first date

Most websites in our industry describe products and services and then ask the visitor to get in touch with them. The problem with this is that it is moving much too fast for the sort of purchases that we are asking people to make.

When a bride or groom lands on your website, they are more than likely in research mode and are gathering information. They need to get to know you and learn how this whole wedding thing works before they make a purchase.

Lead nurturing is the process of educating your prospects and it can be much easier than it sounds. Many businesses offer a free offer in exchange for the prospect’s email address and then communicate with them by email. The emails that you might get from Amazon are a great example of lead nurturing emails. They serve to take you a step closer to a purchase, remind you to visit their website again or attempt to make an additional purchase.

There is more to this than I can cover in a single blog post but I will be showing wedding pros like you how to get more leads and book more weddings in my upcoming course. Click here to find out more about this course and to be notified when the course opens for enrolment.

30 Days To A Better Wedding Business

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What You Can Learn From 8 Top Wedding Bloggers

One of the best ways to learn is to observe what is working for those who are already very successful. The idea of course is not to copy, but to see what you can apply to your own business. I’ve spent some time researching 8 of the top wedding bloggers to see what we can learn from them.

Kat Williams of Rock N Roll Bride

Photography Credit: www.madeulookphotography.com

Photography Credit: www.madeulookphotography.com

Kat is totally herself and is not afraid to speak her mind. Not everyone agrees with her, but that doesn’t stop her from voicing her opinion like she does in this post about weight loss and weddings.

What we can learn: No one is ever truly neutral and acting that way sets off people’s bullshit detectors. Not everyone is going to like everything you have to say and that’s okay. Be a human-have an opinion!

 

Sara Doron of Under the Vintage Veil

SaraSara is not afraid to share personal triumphs as well as personal struggles and I respect her so much for it.

What we can learn: Sharing personal stories (in moderation) can help your customers feel like they know you, even if they’ve never met you. People want to know the person behind the business. Take a look at this post and you’ll see that Sara turns her personal story into advice for people who might be going through something similar. It takes a lot of guts to share what’s going on in your life online, but people do respect it.

Kelly Hood of Boho Weddings

Boho PhotoKelly started blog to run alongside her wedding planning business. Her blog positioned her as an expert and took on a life of its own.

What we can learn: Blogs are very powerful tools for building your business. Kelly initially set up her blog to show more of her style to her brides and it went on to take on a life of it’s own. Brides now tend to find Kelly through her blog and then realise she plans weddings. This means she doesn’t need to advertise at all to get business, because her blog readers already love her style and see her as an expert.

Julia Braime of Brides Up North

Julia ImageJulia saw a neglected local market and turned it into a successful business. Julia says, “Whilst tinkering with my first attempt at blogging, it became apparent to me that whilst the United States is home to many gorgeous wedding blogs, I was aware of only a handful of great wedding blogs in the UK and of those none were area specific. Just as during my time working on the glossies, there was a heavy focus on London and the fantastic regional suppliers that I knew and loved were being side-lined.”

What we can learn: One unique approach you can bring to your business is to make it more focused on your local area. Julia went in the opposite direction that most wedding bloggers were going in. If you want to stand out, “zig” when everyone else is “zagging”

Cassandra Hipple of When Geeks Wed

Cassandra Hipple

Cassandra created When Geeks Wed to help inspire couples to put their own personal spin on their wedding. She was able to create this niche blog by tapping into her love of all things geeky.

What we can learn: Finding where your interests and lack of mainstream representation collide might just be a great place for a business. After all, no one knows the market better than those who are in it.
 
 

Ariel Meadow Stallings of Offbeat Bride

ariel stallingsThe Offbeat Empire is a great example of a business evolving over time. It all started when Ariel wrote a book about nontraditional weddings and launched a site to go along with it. People loved the website more than the book itself, so Ariel took the hint and developed Offbeat Bride. She was able to take what she learned with Offbeat Bride and go even deeper into the interests of her audience  with Offbeat Families and Offbeat Home.

What we can learn: Listen to your audience and don’t be afraid to evolve your business. If you see a way to add another related service or product to your business, go for it! There are likely other avenues that any business can look into and the topics of weddings, families and home all fit together nicely. This also allows the readers to stick around longer because the issues of family and home are much more permanent than planning a wedding.

Andrew Shanahan of Staggered

StaggeredMen are largely ignored in wedding publications, so Andrew created what is now the top resource for men getting married. It’s not that men weren’t interested in weddings, it’s that they weren’t being spoken to by other men or even asked for their opinion on the matter.

What we can learn: Media in every industry is particularly good at ignoring certain groups of people. You can make yourself stand out by speaking to that audience, giving them a voice and paying attention to what they want and need.

Dana LaRue of The Broke-Ass Bride

Dana LaRueDana started The Broke-Ass Bride when she got engaged to share her journey and experience in planning her own wedding on a budget. Her blog is all about making the most of what you’re got. Her message has really resonated with a lot of couples because the issue of money in planning a wedding was, and still is largely ignored in a lot of wedding publications.

What we can learn: Dana became super successful in a very crowded market because of her unique perspective. She writes about wedding planning and wedding inspiration but she also writes about the finances of making it all happen. Dana has been able to build a large following because they relate to her and she makes them feel like it’s okay to not spend a ton on their weddings.

Bonus Lesson

Notice that all of these successful bloggers have distinct target markets and unique voices. They don’t aim to please everyone because it’s impossible to do. You don’t need everyone to love you, a small loyal following is often more than enough.

Learning from others is one of the best ways to figure out what is and isn’t working. During the week of 25th February, I am hosting a free online event called Wedding Business Evolution Summit. This event brings together some of the best marketing and business minds in our industry for you to learn from.

The Great Price Debate

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Photo by mikecogh, available under a Creative Commons Attribution license

There is a lot of unrest in the wedding industry about whether prices should be made available on your website or not. It’s an ongoing debate and some wedding pros choose not to list their prices on their website.

But why?

I think the fear here comes from scaring people off. Let’s deconstruct that. First of all, do you want to work with clients who don’t value what you do enough to pay what you are asking?  Those people are wrong for your business, and they were never going to commit to working with you at your price point. 

So if you aren’t putting your prices on your website, these “tyre kicker” types have to call you to get your prices. You have to spend the time explaining your prices and justifying them to someone who is not going to buy from you. Let’s say each of these calls takes 30 minutes and you take 5 of them per week. You are giving up 2.5 hours of your time every single week, and for what? You will have to have the price conversation with every client at some point, buy delaying it is a waste of everyone’s time.

So what should you do?

I would suggest giving “starting at” prices, but please do not tell people that you work with “every budget”. Not only is that not true, it’s going to come off a cheap and people could find your website based on the word “budget” depending how often you use it. Providing an indication of your pricing will actually weed out the people you don’t want to work with and eliminates those awkward conversations with “tyre kickers”. 

Did you ever think that you might be repelling great clients by not listing your prices?

There is an old saying: “If you have to ask, you can’t afford”. Visitors to your website may assume you are going off of this principle when they very well could afford you and would happily pay for what you have to offer. No one wants to call someone only to find out they don’t have the money to proceed with the purchase. It’s an awkward and embarrassing conversation for everyone involved. Furthermore, people are lazy and they don’t want to call you for fear of getting into a sales conversation when they could just move on the the next supplier who does have their prices listed. 

Stop making it so hard for people to give you their money.

Many of your visitors may just want to collect information and may not be in a place to purchase yet. If you can make a great impression and provide great content, they will come back when they are ready. Keep in mind that the entire world of weddings is likely new to them so they are going to research and compare. A wedding is a big investment and a market that most consumers are unfamiliar with. Weddings can be a pain to plan, but if you can make it easier, people will remember you.

Listing only a starting price can actually make your work seem more custom. According to Splendid Insights, Millennials (the generation born between 1979-2000) have come to expect customisation in every facet of their lives. In fact, there is a great post on the Think Splendid blog about how building pricing around packages can actually hurt you.

At the end of the day, it’s your choice whether you list your prices on your website or not. I say take a stand, state your price and be proud of it. Don’t discuss your price timidly like you’re ashamed of it. When people say “that’s expensive”, explain why your price is as high as it is. Your clients may not realise that they are actually getting a lot of value and expertise for their money.

Do you have your prices listed on your website? If so, do you offer specific amounts, a range, or starting prices? If not, why have you chosen not to share this information?