Are You Advertising On The Knot and WeddingWire Just To Keep Your Reviews?
Are you still advertising on The Knot and WeddingWire just because you are afraid to lose your reviews if you stop paying? You are not alone.
So many wedding pros tell me they feel stuck. They are spending hundreds of dollars every month to advertise on The Knot or advertise on WeddingWire, but the leads are slow or non-existent, the inquiries ghost, and they wonder if any of this is even worth it.
If you have ever asked yourself is WeddingWire worth it or felt pressure to keep paying The Knot just to keep your hard earned reviews visible, this episode is for you.
Today we are looking at what is really going on behind that fear and how directories use your reviews to keep you on the hook. Before you make another payment, you need to hear this.
If you want to make smarter decisions about your marketing and get clear on whether these platforms should still have a place in your strategy, you are in the right place.
Tune in and let’s talk about what is really happening when you feel trapped by directory advertising.
In this episode we’ll cover:
- Why advertising on The Knot and WeddingWire often becomes more about keeping your reviews than attracting real clients
- The hidden cost of staying on these platforms when your ideal clients are not coming from them
- How to assess whether it actually makes sense to advertise on The Knot or advertise on WeddingWire based on data instead of fear
- What to look for to determine if WeddingWire is worth it for your specific wedding business
- What happens when you rely on any platform as your main source of visibility and how that impacts your bookings
- How to take back control of your marketing so you are not dependent on paid directories
- A simple way to decide if keeping your listings is a strategic choice or an emotional reaction to losing your reviews
- What to do instead if you discover that the ads are not bringing in quality leads
Still Paying for The Knot or WeddingWire (Even Though They Stopped Working)?
Discover the proven roadmap wedding pros use to replace outdated platforms and finally attract inquiries that lead to bookings.
Are You Advertising On The Knot and WeddingWire Just To Keep Your Reviews?
Hey there, and welcome back to the Evolve Your Wedding Business Podcast. I’m Heidi Thompson, and today I want to talk about something wedding pros don’t realize is putting their business at risk.
I know that sounds dramatic, but stick with me. Because if you’re paying to advertise on The Knot or WeddingWire purely to keep your reviews visible, you’re not just wasting money, you’re putting your most powerful social proof in someone else’s hands.
And that fear? That’s exactly what these platforms are counting on.
Let me tell you about one of my clients. She had dozens of glowing reviews on The Knot. Rave after rave from real couples she adored working with. But she wasn’t getting leads from the listing anymore. Her ideal clients weren’t coming from there.
And yet she was paying $300 a month. Not because it was making her money. Not because it brought in good leads. But because she was terrified that if she canceled, she’d lose the reviews.
Three hundred dollars a month. Just to keep something that was already hers.
We added it up. That’s $3,600 a year to hold onto social proof that belonged to her. Not leads. Not bookings. Just visibility for reviews she earned through years of amazing service.
She realized something in that moment and I want you to feel it too:
She wasn’t paying for marketing.
She was paying a ransom.
This is what happens when you let a directory control your social proof. This is what happens when you stay afraid to stop advertising on The Knot just because of the reviews.
The Real Problem
Here’s the truth: those reviews aren’t actually yours, not when they only live on someone else’s platform.
You can’t download them. You can’t move them. You can’t back them up. And if you stop paying and they decide to delete your profile, those reviews could disappear.
I’m not saying it will happen but I’ve seen it happen. And even if they don’t remove your profile, why take that risk?
Why let a directory control the visibility of your best proof?
These are YOUR reviews. You worked hard for them. They’re the words of real couples you went above and beyond for. You deserve to control them.
I want you to think about this: is advertising on The Knot or advertising on WeddingWire really worth it just to keep your wedding vendor reviews visible?
What You Should Be Doing Instead
So what can you do? Let’s talk action steps.
1. Copy and Save Every Review You Have
Go through The Knot, WeddingWire, and any other platforms where clients have left you reviews. Copy the full text, screenshot them, and save them in a secure place like Google Drive or Dropbox. Keep a dedicated folder or document of all your testimonials so you’re not dependent on one site to access them.
2. Add Reviews to Your Website
Feature the strongest reviews on your homepage, services page, and inquiry thank-you page. Sprinkle relevant quotes throughout don’t just dump them on a testimonials page that no one visits.
3. Use Reviews in Your Marketing
- Turn them into social media posts and Stories.
- Add them to your inquiry follow-up emails.
- Include them in proposals and welcome guides.
- Use them in blog posts or captions to illustrate points.
- Rotate them into email newsletters to build trust.
4. Ask for Reviews Outside of Directories
Send clients directly to your Google Business profile if you want a central place that’s more “ownable.” You can also collect testimonials via my Testimonials That Sell process and ask for permission to use them publicly.
5. Focus on Owning Your Visibility
Your website, email list, and to some degree your social channels are places where you control what gets seen. Lean into them. Don’t rely on third-party platforms that can change the rules, hide your reviews, or delete your profile.
If you’re advertising wedding services, think beyond the wedding ads these directories offer. Real visibility comes from the places you own.
This is About Control
This isn’t just about your reviews. It’s about control.
When someone else controls your visibility, you’re vulnerable. That’s why so many wedding pros feel stuck, even when they’re spending hundreds each month on these platforms.
But you can take that power back. I’ve helped so many wedding pros cancel their listings and build a system that they control and not only survive, but thrive.
When you have your own plan for how to attract and book the right clients, you don’t need to rely on platforms that might pull the rug out from under you. You’re not panicking about your listings or praying for leads. You’re getting booked from sources you trust.
And you don’t need to keep wondering, “Is WeddingWire worth it?” You’ll already know the answer.
Free Training to Help You Break Free
If you’re nodding along right now, there’s something I created for you.
It’s called Break Up With The Knot & WeddingWire (Without Losing Leads) and you can save your free spot at evolveyourweddingbusiness.com/breakup.
This is the exact strategy I walk my clients through when they’re ready to stop paying for platforms that don’t work and start getting booked in smarter, more sustainable ways.
In the training, I show you:
- Why those directory leads ghost you and what to do about it
- Where better leads are actually coming from (and how to get them)
- How to build a plan to attract and book clients that doesn’t require 60-hour weeks or crossing your fingers every month
And as a bonus, I include a resource to help you start reclaiming your reviews and putting them to work.
These are your reviews. From your clients. About your amazing work.
Don’t let someone else hold them hostage.
You deserve to have control. Over your reviews. Over your marketing. Over your business.
Go to evolveyourweddingbusiness.com/breakup to watch the free training and get the tools that will help you build a business that doesn’t depend on platforms you can’t trust.
Talk to you next time!
Links & Resources:
FREE TRAINING: Break Up With The Knot & WeddingWire (Without Losing Leads)
Testimonials That Sell (free download)
Why So Many Wedding Pros Want To Quit Advertising On The Knot & WeddingWire (But Feel Stuck)
The Knot & WeddingWire: Are They Worth It For Wedding Vendors?
Advertising on The Knot and WeddingWire: The Hidden Costs No One Talks About
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