Some people call me an OG of wedding business marketing, but deep down I'm just another person wearing PJ bottoms on Zoom. I swear a lot, I share my struggles, and I don't pretend to be better than anyone else.
One of the best ways to learn is to observe what is working for those who are already very successful. The idea of course is not to copy, but to see what you can apply to your own business. I’ve spent some time researching 8 of the top wedding bloggers to see what we can learn from them.
Kat is totally herself and is not afraid to speak her mind. Not everyone agrees with her, but that doesn’t stop her from voicing her opinion like she does in this post about weight loss and weddings.
What we can learn: No one is ever truly neutral and acting that way sets off people’s bullshit detectors. Not everyone is going to like everything you have to say and that’s okay. Be a human-have an opinion!

What we can learn: Sharing personal stories (in moderation) can help your customers feel like they know you, even if they’ve never met you. People want to know the person behind the business. Take a look at this post and you’ll see that Sara turns her personal story into advice for people who might be going through something similar. It takes a lot of guts to share what’s going on in your life online, but people do respect it.

What we can learn: Blogs are very powerful tools for building your business. Kelly initially set up her blog to show more of her style to her brides and it went on to take on a life of it’s own. Brides now tend to find Kelly through her blog and then realise she plans weddings. This means she doesn’t need to advertise at all to get business, because her blog readers already love her style and see her as an expert.

What we can learn: One unique approach you can bring to your business is to make it more focused on your local area. Julia went in the opposite direction that most wedding bloggers were going in. If you want to stand out, “zig” when everyone else is “zagging”
Cassandra created When Geeks Wed to help inspire couples to put their own personal spin on their wedding. She was able to create this niche blog by tapping into her love of all things geeky.
What we can learn: Finding where your interests and lack of mainstream representation collide might just be a great place for a business. After all, no one knows the market better than those who are in it.

What we can learn: Listen to your audience and don’t be afraid to evolve your business. If you see a way to add another related service or product to your business, go for it! There are likely other avenues that any business can look into and the topics of weddings, families and home all fit together nicely. This also allows the readers to stick around longer because the issues of family and home are much more permanent than planning a wedding.

What we can learn: Media in every industry is particularly good at ignoring certain groups of people. You can make yourself stand out by speaking to that audience, giving them a voice and paying attention to what they want and need.

What we can learn: Dana became super successful in a very crowded market because of her unique perspective. She writes about wedding planning and wedding inspiration but she also writes about the finances of making it all happen. Dana has been able to build a large following because they relate to her and she makes them feel like it’s okay to not spend a ton on their weddings.
Notice that all of these successful bloggers have distinct target markets and unique voices. They don’t aim to please everyone because it’s impossible to do.
Learning from others is one of the best ways to figure out what is and isn’t working. I am bringing together some of the best marketing and business minds in our industry for you to learn from on the Evolve Your Wedding Business Podcast so be sure to subscribe!
My humble thanks to Heidi for featuring Staggered. I thought it might also be useful to know what you absolutely SHOULD NOT learn from us. Obviously, I can only speak for myself and Staggered (and BTW I’m not saying that the other blogs are doing things wrong) but here’s something that it took me a long time to recognise and understand. Do not undervalue your blog/website. Ever.
I see ad rates for some of the sites out there and it makes me genuinely sad. It makes me sad that they value themselves so lowly. It also makes me sad because for every other chump working in the sector it makes it harder to make a living. There’s a perception (often perpetuated by the mainstream media – MSM) that bloggers are amateurs and that any money they make from their sites they should be pathetically grateful for. I disagree. I think that there are many amateurs out there but that’s not to say that the editorial they produce isn’t every bit as professional as the MSM.
The only difference is that the MSM has had more practice at keeping a straight face when they tell you their ad rates. In my humble opinion everyone in the wedding blogging world should add 50% onto their rates next Monday, with no apologies, caveats or excuses. Companies should pay up or stop abusing people who don’t have the confidence/knowledge to set reasonable rates. Anyway, there’s my five pence’s worth (I’ve added 50%): create something you’re proud of, set sensible rates and stick to them.
I love this! You are so right about this. Wedding pros and bloggers alike are notorious for undervaluing themselves. Price and value go hand in hand and low prices imply low value/quality.
If only my customers understood that..xxx
It’s our job to help them understand the value that we offer. If we don’t value ourselves, why should they?
How you do this is going to depend on what your business is. If you’d like to share some details about your business with me I’d be happy to help!
I also forgot to mention that communicating your value is going to be something we cover during Wedding Business Evolution Summit. You can register for free here: http://www.evolveyourweddingbusiness.com/wbes-3